Men,Women with Multiple Sex Partner are Selfish .....

I have always had a serious problem trying to understand why a girl will
have so many boyfriends or sex partners and/or a guy, too many girls he
sleeps with. It confuses me for real.
All my life, I knew a relationship is best within two people who truly love
themselves. In fact, they share better and easier and can understand
themselves faster than when they do same thing with multiple sex partners.
But it's with sadness that I say to you today that, serial dating is the in-
thing of this 21st century.
I just can't comprehend the fact that love has become so cheap that it can be equally
shared with three-five partners at the same time. Wait! How is this even possible? Can
a man love his mother and wife the same? How then do you think he can love two
women at the same time? Impossible right?
This goes to show that he will love one and pretend to love the others which is bizarre.
But it has also come to my knowledge that the partners don’t care if they are sharing
one guy/woman. So I figured… perhaps, these people date several partners for different reasons.
When I was at the University, some girls will have the guys they sleep with saved with
the strangest names on their phones. I could see names like "carpet", "fridge",
"Samsung", "Shampoo", "Blackberry" … hahhaha! This was really ridiculous and none of
the guys would know they are been referred to the objects they bought for the same girls.
Another thing I have discovered is that women these days date different men for
different reasons. The guy could just be good-looking. The other one could be for his money. Another, for dressing really trendy and another for always taking care of her  private part etc etc. But SEX IS KEY for all of them. Isn’t this stressful, emotionally exhausting and stupid?
For the men who sleep around with two - ten mistresses, isn’t it too expensive? You may say, "I am not the one spending" but for how long? Will she ask for something,and you won’t give her after fucking her on a regular? Then again, you claim to be in love with a special woman. Smh!
So, I have come to the conclusion that people who practice serial dating are greedy, selfish and unnecessarily dump! You can't even realize that you are spending more and
receiving little. Why? Why can't you ljust ove and be there for her or him alone?
... Am I being too emotional here?
By Joan Cox